January 10: After a Hard Day at Work

The boss was short with you. The numbers didn’t add up. And now it’s five o’clock and you’re tired all the way down.

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.””

Matthew 11:28-30 · ESV

Jesus said these words to ordinary working people. Farmers, fishermen, people who carried heavy loads every day. He didn’t invite the rested and successful. He invited the weary and burdened. He said, come to me, and I will give you rest.

For years the drink may have been your idea of rest. The end of the workday meant the first beer, the glass of wine while cooking, the stop at the bar on the way home. It worked for a while. It took the edge off. But somewhere along the way it stopped being a reward and became a need. The edge came back sharper, and more drinks were needed to dull it.

Being honest about Step One means seeing that pattern for what it is. The stress at work is real. But alcohol was never really resting you. It was postponing the tiredness and adding a hangover to it.

Jesus talks about a yoke. A yoke is a wooden beam that lets two animals pull together. The point isn’t that you’ll never carry anything again. The point is you won’t carry it alone, and His way of carrying it is gentle. That’s real rest. Not escape, but company.

The hour after work is often the most dangerous hour of the day in early sobriety. So plan it. Change the route home if it passes the old bar. Eat something soon after you walk in the door, because hunger makes cravings louder. Change clothes. Take a walk. Call someone on the drive. Give that hour a new shape, and it will lose some of its pull.

And tell God about the day. All of it. The unfair comment, the worry about money, the feeling that you’re not enough. He asked for the heavy things.

One thing today

Plan the first hour after work today: one thing to eat, one person to call, and one thing to do with your hands. Write it down before lunch.

A prayer

Jesus, I’m tired and the day was hard. I come to You instead of the bottle. Teach me what real rest looks like, and carry this with me.

More on Step One, and on handling cravings.

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