October 15: A Deadline and a Short Fuse

The deadline is tomorrow, the work isn’t done, and everyone around you is getting on your nerves.

Pressure at work has a way of shrinking the world. Suddenly there’s only the project, the clock and the people slowing you down. You stop eating right. You stop sleeping right. You skip the meeting because there isn’t time. And by afternoon you’re snapping at people who don’t deserve it.

For a lot of people, stress like this used to end the same way every night. Get through the day, then reward yourself. The reward was a drink. Part of your brain still remembers that deal, even if you’ve been sober a while.

This is a good day for a Step Ten spot-check. Not tonight. Now. Stop for sixty seconds and ask which one it is. Fear is a good bet. Fear of failing. Fear of what your boss will think. Fear that you’re not as good as you need to be. Fear often comes out as irritation, because irritation feels stronger.

Paul wrote this verse to people who had very little control over their work. Many of them were servants. He told them to work heartily, as for the Lord and not for people. That changes the question. It’s no longer “Will this impress them?” It’s “Am I doing honest work, offered to God?” That question is calmer. You can answer it today.

It also gives you permission to stop pretending. If the deadline can’t be met, it’s more honest to say so early than to burn yourself down trying. “I need until Thursday to do this right” is a hard sentence. It’s often the right one.

And if you snapped at someone today, that’s part of the spot-check too. Go back and say it. “Sorry, I was stressed and took it out on you.” It takes ten seconds. It keeps the workplace a little safer for everyone, including you.

When the day is done, don’t bargain with yourself about rewards. Eat a real meal. Call someone. Go for a walk. Go to bed. The best thing you can do for tomorrow’s deadline is to show up sober and rested.

One thing today

Set a timer for midday. When it goes off, stop for one minute. Breathe, name the fear underneath the stress, and offer the rest of your work to God.

A prayer

Lord, I’m under pressure and I’m not handling it well. Help me do this work honestly, as if I’m doing it for You. Calm my fear, guard my mouth, and get me through today sober. Amen.

The spot-check in Step Ten works in the middle of the day.

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