Anxiety After Quitting Drinking: What Helps

Anxiety after quitting drinking is very common. Your body and mind are adjusting to life without alcohol, and for many people that brings a jittery, uneasy feeling for a while. It usually eases with time, sleep, food, people and prayer. But if your anxiety is severe, comes with panic attacks, or comes with shaking, sweating or a racing heart, see a doctor right away.

Safety first. If you drink heavily every day, stopping suddenly can be dangerous. Talk to a doctor before you quit.

If you’re having chest pain, can’t breathe, or feel confused, call 911. If you’re thinking about hurting yourself, call or text 988.

Why it happens

Alcohol slows the brain down. When you drink regularly, your brain pushes back to stay balanced. Take the alcohol away and that push is still there for a while, which can feel like nervousness. On top of that, many people used drinking to avoid worries they now have to face sober: bills, relationships, the damage from drinking itself. That’s a lot at once.

None of this means you’re doing sobriety wrong. It means you’re in the hard early part.

When to see a doctor

Please see a doctor if:

  • You drank heavily and the anxiety came with shakes, sweats, a fast heartbeat or seeing things.
  • You have panic attacks.
  • You can’t sleep, eat or work because of it.
  • It’s getting worse instead of better after the first few weeks.
  • You had anxiety before you drank, and now it’s back strong.

A doctor can check you over and talk about what might help. That’s not weakness and it’s not failing at recovery. It’s taking care of the body God gave you.

Calming down in the next ten minutes

Slow your breath. Breathe in through your nose for four counts and out through your mouth for six. Longer out-breaths tell your body it’s safe.

Name five things you can see. It pulls your mind back into the room.

Put your feet on the floor. Feel the ground. You’re here, and you’re sober.

Drink water and eat something. Low blood sugar can make anxiety spike.

Text one person. “Feeling really anxious. Can you check on me?”

Small daily habits that help

  • Keep caffeine low, especially after noon.
  • Get outside in daylight every morning.
  • Walk every day.
  • Go to bed and get up at the same time.
  • Go to meetings. Sitting in a room of people who’ve felt this calms many people down.
  • Write your worries down before bed so they aren’t spinning in your head.

Bringing it to God

“…do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4:6-7 · ESV

Paul’s answer to anxiety is prayer with thanksgiving, and the result is a peace that guards your heart and mind. You may have to bring the same worry back many times a day. That’s fine. He doesn’t get tired of it.

“…casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.”

1 Peter 5:7 · ESV

Cast all of it, because He cares for you. Not because you’ve earned it. Because He does.

Try this: when a worry hits, say it out loud to God in one sentence, then name one thing you’re thankful for. It’s small, and it breaks the spiral more often than you’d expect.

For more on getting sober safely, read how to quit drinking at home.

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A prayer for an anxious heart

“Lord, my heart is racing and my mind won’t stop. I don’t want to drink to make it quiet. I give You every worry I’m carrying. Guard my heart and mind with Your peace. Help me get the care I need, and help me rest tonight. Amen.”

Common questions

How long does anxiety last after quitting drinking?

It's different for everyone. Many people say it's worst in the first days and weeks and slowly eases over the following months. If it isn't easing, or it's severe, see a doctor. Don't wait it out alone.

Is anxiety after quitting a sign of withdrawal?

It can be, especially if you drank heavily and it comes with shaking, sweating, a racing heart or confusion. That needs a doctor right away. Withdrawal can be dangerous.

Can I drink a little to take the edge off?

Most people find that 'a little' makes the anxiety worse the next day and restarts the cycle. Talk to a doctor about what's safe for you instead.

Is anxiety a lack of faith?

No. Faithful people in the Bible were afraid. Anxiety is something to bring to God and to a doctor, not something to be ashamed of.

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