The Promises in Recovery: What They Describe

The Promises are a well-loved passage from the basic text of 12-step recovery. They come right after the discussion of making amends in Step 9, and many meetings read them out loud. In plain terms, they describe what tends to happen when someone works the steps honestly.

What they describe

We won’t quote them here; read them in your own copy. In our own words, the passage talks about:

  • Freedom, and a joy you had not known before.
  • Making peace with the past instead of hiding from it or being crushed by it.
  • Your story, even the worst parts, becoming useful to someone else.
  • Self-pity and selfishness fading.
  • Fear of people and of money troubles easing.
  • Knowing how to handle situations that used to confuse you.
  • A growing sense that God is handling what you never could.

The passage closes by saying these changes are real and will show up, at their own pace, for people who do the work. That’s the important part. The Promises aren’t a reward for showing up. They describe a life that’s been changed by doing the steps.

For a Christian

Much of what they describe sounds like what Scripture says about a new life in Christ: the old passing away, the new coming.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

2 Corinthians 5:17 · ESV

The Promises don’t replace God’s promises in the Bible. But many believers find they line up, and that God keeps His word through the slow work of amends and honesty.

Notice one

Read the Promises in your own copy tonight. Which one have you started to see in your life? Mark it, and thank God for it. Then read Step 9.

Common questions

Where are the Promises found?

They appear in the basic text of 12-step recovery, in the discussion of Step 9 and making amends. Many meetings read them aloud. Read them in your own copy.

Do the Promises come true for everyone?

The passage ties them to doing the work, not to wishing. People who do the steps thoroughly often say they have seen them happen, on very different timelines.

Are the Promises biblical?

They aren't Scripture. But much of what they describe, like freedom from fear and peace with the past, matches what the Bible says God does in a changed life.

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