What Are the 12 Steps? Explained Simply
The 12 steps are a set of actions, worked in order, that help a person stop drinking and stay stopped by changing how they live. In plain words: admit you can’t beat alcohol alone, trust God to help, get honest about yourself, make things right with people, and keep praying and helping others. They first appeared in the 1939 book Alcoholics Anonymous (p. 59).
The 12 steps in plain words
Here is each step in one line. Each has its own page with the original wording, Scripture, questions and a prayer.
- Admit it. Alcohol has beaten me, and my life has become unmanageable. Step 1
- Hope. I come to believe that God can restore me to sanity. Step 2
- Decide. I choose to turn my will and my life over to God’s care. Step 3
- Look inside. I write an honest inventory of my resentments, fears and wrongs. Step 4
- Confess. I admit those wrongs to God, to myself and to one other person. Step 5
- Get ready. I become willing for God to take away my defects of character. Step 6
- Ask. I humbly ask God to remove my shortcomings. Step 7
- List. I write down everyone I’ve harmed and become willing to make it right. Step 8
- Make amends. I make direct amends wherever I can, unless doing so would hurt them or others. Step 9
- Keep checking. I keep taking inventory and admit it promptly when I’m wrong. Step 10
- Stay close to God. Through prayer and quiet time, I seek to know His will and the power to do it. Step 11
- Pass it on. Having had a spiritual awakening, I carry the message to others and live these principles everywhere. Step 12
How the steps fit together
It helps to see them in four movements.
Steps 1 to 3: Giving up the fight. You stop pretending you can manage drinking and turn toward God.
Steps 4 to 7: Cleaning house. You look honestly at what drove you, tell someone, and ask God to change you.
Steps 8 and 9: Repairing damage. You go back to the people your drinking hurt and make it right.
Steps 10 to 12: Living it every day. You keep short accounts, stay in prayer, and help the next person.
Who the steps are for
The steps were written by and for alcoholics, people who found they couldn’t stop drinking on their own. You don’t have to be sure you’re an alcoholic to begin, though. Many people start Step 1 still wondering. The steps also aren’t only for people in crisis. Some come to them after years of quiet, controlled drinking that slowly took over their lives. If drinking has a grip on you, the steps are for you.
What “working the steps” means
Reading the list doesn’t do much. Working them means writing, praying, talking with a sponsor and taking real actions, usually over months. See step work for what that looks like, and Christian 12-step programs for how believers approach them.
The steps say “God as we understood Him.” For a Christian, that’s the God of the Bible, revealed in Jesus. Our page on Higher Power vs. God explains why that phrase is there.
Safety first. If you drink heavily every day, stopping suddenly can be dangerous. Talk to a doctor before you quit.
Doing, not just hearing
James warned against hearing the word without doing it. The steps are the same. They work when they’re done.
“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”
And you don’t need to see the whole road to take the next step.
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
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Where to start today
Read Step 1 and answer one question on paper: when have I tried to control my drinking and failed?
A prayer to begin
“God, I don’t know how to do all twelve. Help me do the first one honestly today. Lead me one step at a time. Amen.”
Common questions
Where do the 12 steps come from?
They were written by early members of Alcoholics Anonymous and published in 1939 in the book Alcoholics Anonymous, on page 59. Many of the ideas came from a Christian movement of the 1930s.
Do you have to do the 12 steps in order?
Yes, that's how they were designed. Each step prepares you for the next. Admitting the problem comes before deciding to trust God, and taking an inventory comes before making amends.
Are the 12 steps only for alcohol?
They were written for alcoholism, and this site focuses on drinking. Many other groups have adapted them for other struggles.
Are the 12 steps religious?
They talk about God throughout but don't name a religion. A Christian can work every step with full faith in Jesus.
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